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Its been ages since I wrote but the family has revoked the trend
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365 days and nature nurture- I

Its been 365 days and on....sounds good..isn't it
Two ppl(wanted to use word "soul" but it seemed quite a heavy word) quite unknown to each other 1 year and 3 months back decided to align their journey of life with each other, complementing each other, supplementing each other and pulling each other, up and down ,back and forth...
yes this 18th May we celebrated our first wedding anniversary......so what!!! most of the ppl celebrate it...whats the big deal...
The big deal is the events..that made it a day and coming weekend great for us...
its 00.00 a.m one cake had already come as a gift so we decided to cut it and we did the same .ate it..and recorded events with alternate commentary...
Time -> 00:15 a.m ..now we both are waiting for some calls(wishes) to come ...sms(es)...waiting..waiting....
....but no, not a single call or messages.....finally we slept by 00:45..thinking that all the friends and relatives have forgottne in one year....:-(

Now comes morning 6 and it starts ..ringing of cell phones, messages, wishes and all that...
we are saying to all we were waiting in the night as well etc etc

...then we got our first lesson
(1) Don't call or message any one midnight on anniversaries --its not a BDay!!! "ai-la hamko to yeh pata hi nahin tha"

Now starts the day she has to leave early to catch the bus to office and the here is the conversation

X: what is this aaj bhi koi itni jaldi office jaata hai
Y: jaana hai na shaam ko jaldi aana hai isliye
X: ok yaar fine (Annoyingly)
(have to drop her till bus stand so bike comes out )
"horn horn -pi pi- call to second floor
X: where r u its getting late ...
Y: nahin ab nahin jaana ..aa jao tum upar...
(X thinking...yeah.....abhi mast araam se saath main breakfast kahyenge...and then will goto office little late)
ok breakfast and all done now...

X: ok lets go office now ...
Y: what is this koi apni pahli anniv ko bhi office jaata hai
X is clean bowled!!!!

(2) Don't ever think u r smart , your spouse is always more smart!!!! ( its been actually one yr lifestyle for us)

Now to celebration parts...Actually in some way we both are very equally matched ....we both succumb to peer pressure ...and most of the time it has turn out to be good for us.
Actually as our wedding anniv. was coming closer all the corners of friend and family circle has started asking questions like whats the plan...is there any personal plans..etc etc..we did this , they did this ...we two poor soul once again went into the loop and started thinking of some plan of visiting some place nearby Bangalore ...and as ever we were late with our planning ....but its rewarding sometimes...so we came to know of some place called Silent Valley (www.silentvalley.net) arnd 310 km from Bangalore...and we got booking as well there ....so thats our plan..to spend weekend in the lap of nature.....
To be contd.....

Honest Effort Vs Best Effort

Are these synonyms or Complimentary or Supplementary....
Always I crib, always I ask , always I retrospect....
"Was there best effort..its almost everyday's story...
I plan I dispose , procrastinate and blame somebody/something/situation or if no body then to myself ...
Daily the question comes Did I put my best effort ? Answer is negative as always ...
But Today it suddenly came from inside....
One should put honest efforts...
What does that mean....
Isn't best effort is honest effort??
I guess they may be best or not but they may be satisfying, I hope.....
Honest effort in yopur day to day job, honest effort in your relationship, honest effort in feeling happy...or making someone happy....
These cant be compared In my opinion...
As Honesty would be absolute for oneself ....I guess and hope so.....

Urge for appreciation - how many don't have??

Is it a selfish behaviour....
Why do we seek for feedback (mostly for positive in our minds) for our so called good acts..
It is there everywhere in each task in every thought in every feeling ....we want "atleast" appreciation(or acknowledgement in agreement or praising) in some manner or other we want feedback....

Geeta ka saar
"Karm kiye ja fal ki chinta mat kar...."

Appreciation being a fruit Is it being selfish....

Terrafic Police....

Finally.....
After being in Blogs horizon for more than 3-4 months, I gatthered some courage to pen down some of my gray thoughts or let me say not black and white thoughts....thats precisely came to my mind when I was asked to give a title (notblacknwhite) for the blog by the system....
Well what actually broke my inertia of writing is a white incident of morning which made me feel in values....
So this is related to T(e)r(a)rific Police ..Really this traffic Police man's generousity made my morning a feel good..
What happened is that this guy was managing the peak morning traffic and I in my hurry was at the front and expecting him to give me a nod to go...but suddenly I saw this guy is moving towards the other side of the road and I in my mind started abusing him what is this it should be our turn and he should give signal to our side and all....but the next moment I see that this guys went to the side of the road and hold hand of a blind man and make him crossed the road ..I was amazed to see...and did not mind waiting 5-7 secs for my turn to move ....
we geenrally have not so good image for any police man and for the trafic Police personnel we kind of think that they always want to make money and this this....
But this guy with a pure act of humanity...made him terrafic Police.....